Getting engaged is an unforgettable moment filled with excitement, joy, and a dash of butterflies.
But once the ring is on, what comes next?
If you are unsure where to start, don’t worry — Stonewall Resort’s Catering Sales Manager, Haleigh Schultz, is here to help.
With years of experience guiding couples through the wedding planning process, Haleigh offers practical tips to help you navigate the first month of engagement easily and confidently.
Let’s see what she has to offer.
Stonewall Resort’s Advice for Newly Engaged Couples
1. Savor the Moment
Before diving into planning, Haleigh’s top advice is to simply enjoy being engaged.
"The ultimate first thing is just enjoy being engaged for a hot minute," she says. "We all forget that part and jump straight into lists and to-dos."
Take a weekend to soak in the joy with your partner, celebrate with loved ones, and revel in the new chapter you’ve just begun.
The planning will still be there when you’re ready — but those initial engagement moments are precious.
2. Budget, Guest List, and Timeline: The Big Three
Once you’re ready to start planning, Haleigh suggests focusing on three key tasks:
Set Your Budget
"You have to know what you're going to be able to afford," says Haleigh. Sit down with your partner and anyone contributing financially — parents, grandparents, or other family members — to clearly outline how much everyone is willing to contribute.
Understanding your budget from the beginning will help you make informed decisions and avoid unnecessary stress down the road.
Create a Guest List
Your guest list should align with your budget. "You can't have a $5,000 budget with 350 guests. It just doesn't work," Haleigh notes.
Start with a rough estimate and refine the list as you go. Remember, your guest list will impact venue choice, catering, and other significant costs.
Pick a General Timeframe and Location
Decide on a general timeframe for your wedding. Are you envisioning a cozy winter wedding or a bright summer celebration? Choosing a season will help guide your venue selection and availability. Stonewall Resort offers a variety of settings to match any season or vision.
3. Avoid Common Planning Pitfalls
One of the most common mistakes couples make early on is having grand ideas that don’t align with their budget. "Scrolling through Pinterest can give you champagne tastes on a beer budget," Haleigh warns.
The key is to be realistic. Determine what elements are most important to you and allocate your budget accordingly. There’s no need to break the bank — it’s about making the best use of your resources.
4. Balance Your Vision and Budget
Finding a balance between your dream wedding and your budget can feel challenging, but it’s entirely possible. Haleigh emphasizes the importance of setting expectations early and sticking to them.
"You don’t have to spend $30,000 on a wedding," she says. "But you do need to be realistic about what you can get for the amount you’re willing to spend."
Consider prioritizing meaningful touches that make your wedding feel personal. For example, Stonewall Resort offers customizable packages to fit a range of budgets, so you can create a unique experience without overspending.
5. Leverage the Expertise at Stonewall Resort
One of the most significant advantages of hosting your wedding at Stonewall Resort is the personalized guidance from their expert team.
"We’re not a cookie-cutter venue," says Haleigh. "We help couples navigate different venue options and price points to find what works best for them. Whether it’s a grand ballroom wedding for 200 guests or an intimate gathering at Lightburn’s for 60, we have options."
In addition to the beautiful settings, couples benefit from having experienced planners like Haleigh. "Most people are planning a wedding for the first time," she explains. "But I’ve done this many times. I can help guide you to the right choices for your vision and budget."
Why Stonewall Resort for a Wedding?
Nestled in the heart of West Virginia, Stonewall Resort offers breathtaking lakeside views and a serene atmosphere perfect for any wedding. With multiple venue options, from grand ballrooms to cozy lodges, and a team dedicated to making your wedding vision a reality, it’s an ideal destination for your big day.
Plus, the resort’s all-inclusive packages make planning a breeze. Enjoy the convenience of having accommodations, catering, and stunning backdrops all in one place.
Start Your Journey with Stonewall
Planning a wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and the first month of engagement sets the tone for everything that follows. By taking Haleigh’s advice to heart, you’ll be well on your way to a smooth and joyful planning process.
At Stonewall Resort, your wedding should be as unique as your love story. From the first toast to the final dance, our team is here to make your day unforgettable. Ready to start planning?
Reach out to us today to learn more about our wedding packages and amenities.
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